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Your First Ryokan Stay in Japan: Booking, Check-In, Dinner, Baths and Futons
A night at a ryokan, a traditional Japanese inn, is often the night visitors remember most. You slide open a paper screen to a room with tatami floors, dinner arrives as a parade of small dishes, and after a hot bath you sleep on a futon laid out on the floor.
It is also a stay with more moving parts than a hotel. Meals are booked with the room and served at set times, the bath has opening hours, and the room changes shape between dinner and bedtime. None of it is hard, but it helps to know the flow before you arrive. This guide follows a typical one-night stay from booking to checkout, so you can relax and enjoy it.
Momiji's tip: Arrive in the afternoon, not late at night. The best part of a ryokan stay is the slow evening: a bath before dinner, a long meal, another soak before bed.
The 30-second version
If you only remember five things, make it these:
- Ryokan are usually priced per person, often with dinner and breakfast included. Check what your plan covers.
- Tell the inn about allergies and food you cannot eat a few days before your stay.
- Check in from mid-afternoon, and let the inn know if you will be late, or you may miss dinner.
- Meals and baths run on set times. You choose your dinner time at check-in.
- No tipping needed. A warm thank-you at checkout is enough.
Choosing a ryokan and a plan
Ryokan range from small family-run inns to large hot-spring resorts. Most have tatami rooms, futon bedding and yukata robes for guests, and many have an onsen (hot-spring bath) (source: JNTO).
How the price works
Unlike most hotels, ryokan usually charge per person, not per room (source: Japan Tourism Agency). The price often includes dinner and breakfast. Many inns also offer breakfast-only or room-only "simple stay" plans, so read the plan name carefully before you book.
JNTO puts the average ryokan stay at around ¥15,000 per night, with high-end inns costing much more (source: JNTO). Prices swing a lot by season, day of the week and room type, so compare a few dates if you can.
Traveling with children? Many ryokan do not charge for very young children (for example, 3 and under), some charge a reduced rate, and children aged 12 and over usually pay the full adult price (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
Things worth checking before you book
- Meals included? Dinner and breakfast, breakfast only, or none.
- Where you eat. Some inns serve dinner in your room; others use a dining room or a private dining space.
- Beds or futons. Some ryokan have rooms with Western-style beds, or tables and chairs, if sitting on the floor is hard for you. Ask (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
- Private bath options. Some inns have rooms with their own open-air bath, or private baths you can reserve for a set time.
- Tattoo policy, if it matters to you. Rules differ from inn to inn (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
- Pickup from the station. Some countryside inns offer it, but you almost always need to arrange it in advance.
- Cancellation policy. Fees usually rise as the date gets closer, and if you don't show up you usually pay the full price (source: Japan Tourism Agency). When you pay also depends on the inn or the booking site.
Food needs
Ryokan meals are often prepared in advance, so tell the inn about allergies, dietary needs and food you don't eat when you book, and confirm it again at least a few days before your stay. Not every inn can handle every request (source: Japan Tourism Agency), so it is better to ask early than to be surprised at dinner.
Getting there and checking in
Most ryokan let you check in from 3 or 4 p.m. (source: Japan Tourism Agency). If you arrive early, almost every inn will keep your luggage at the front desk while you explore.
If you are running late, call or message the inn. Dinner is served at set times, and a late arrival can mean missing it. Many inns are in hot-spring towns or the countryside, so check the last train or bus before you set off. Our guide to train tickets and IC cards covers rural lines where you may need cash.
Traveling with a big suitcase? Countryside stations can have stairs and few lockers. Many travelers send their main bag ahead to the next hotel and bring only an overnight bag to the ryokan. See our guide to sending luggage ahead.
At check-in, staff will usually:
- Ask what time you would like dinner and breakfast, from the times they offer.
- Explain the baths: where they are, their hours, and which one is for men or women.
- Show you to your room, sometimes with a short tour of the building.
At the entrance you will take off your shoes. Take off your shoes at the entrance
Your room
A traditional ryokan room is a calm, mostly empty space: tatami mats, a low table with floor cushions, and a yukata waiting for you.
Two small habits keep the room as it should be:
- Slippers stay at the edge of the tatami. Walk on the mats in socks or bare feet. Never wear slippers on tatami.
- Lift your suitcase rather than rolling it across the mats.
Our guide to ryokan and home etiquette goes through the genkan, slippers and tatami step by step.
Wearing the yukata
The cotton robe in your room is a yukata, and you are welcome to wear it to the baths, to dinner and to bed. Many guests wear it for the whole evening, and in hot-spring towns people often stroll outside in it.
The one rule to remember is the wrap: left side over right. Wear the yukata left side over right
Some inns also provide a short jacket for cooler evenings. If your yukata does not fit, ask at the front desk.
Dinner and breakfast
Dinner is often a highlight of the stay. Many ryokan serve a kaiseki meal, a multi-course dinner of small seasonal dishes (source: JNTO). Breakfast the next morning is usually a traditional Japanese one, often with rice, miso soup and several small side dishes.
A few things that make meals smoother:
- Be on time. Meals are served within set time periods, and once a period ends you may not be able to have that meal (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
- Go in your yukata if you like. It is completely normal.
- Ask about drinks. Check whether drinks come with your plan or are ordered separately and added to the bill.
- Pace yourself. Dishes keep coming. It is fine to leave a little if you are full.
- Say thanks. A quiet itadakimasu before you start and gochisōsama at the end are always welcome. Our restaurant etiquette guide covers chopsticks and table manners.
The baths
Many ryokan have a large shared bath, often an onsen, separated for men and women. Usually you do not need to book it, and many inns keep it open late at night and early in the morning, closing only for cleaning (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
The bath follows the same etiquette as any onsen:
- Wash your whole body first at the shower stations. Wash your whole body before getting in
- Keep your small towel out of the water, and tie up long hair.
- No swimsuits, no photos, and keep your voice down.
Bathe safely. Avoid the bath right after drinking a lot of alcohol or in the middle of the night, and drink water (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
Tattoos. Rules vary, and some inns ask guests with tattoos to use a private bath instead (source: Japan Tourism Agency). Our guide to tattoos and onsen explains how to ask. Check the tattoo rule before you go
Private baths. Some ryokan have private baths you can book for a time slot. Ask the staff when you arrive, since popular times fill up.
For the full walkthrough, from the changing room to drying off, see our guide to onsen etiquette.
Futons and bedtime
When you come back from dinner or the bath, your room may look different: the low table has been moved aside, and futons have been laid out on the tatami. At many inns staff do this while you are out; at others, guests lay out their own bedding from the cupboard (source: JNTO). If no one has come by the time you want to sleep, check the room guide or ask the front desk.
A futon can feel firmer than a Western bed. If you would like an extra layer or another pillow, just ask.
Quiet hours. Walls and sliding doors carry sound, so keep voices low in the evening. Some ryokan also have a curfew when the front door is locked. If you plan to go out at night, ask how to get back in (source: Japan Tourism Agency).
Checkout and tipping
Most ryokan have checkout between 10 a.m. and noon (source: Japan Tourism Agency). Before you go:
- Leave the futon as it is, unless the room guide asks you to fold it.
- Put used yukata and towels together in one place.
- Pay for extras such as drinks at the front desk, if they were not included.
- Say thank you. Arigatō gozaimashita is perfect.
What about tipping? In Japan, tipping is generally not expected, including at hotels (source: JNTO). You may read about kokorozuke, a small gratuity in an envelope that some guests give in certain situations, but it is never required. A sincere thank-you is more than enough. Don't tip
Quick questions
Can I stay at a ryokan if I can't sit on the floor? Yes. Some ryokan have rooms with beds and chairs. Ask when you book.
Do I have to wear the yukata? No. It is offered for comfort. Wear your own clothes if you prefer.
Can I eat dinner outside the ryokan? If you book a room-only or breakfast-only plan, yes. If dinner is included, it is usually prepared for you in advance, so tell the inn early if you will skip it.
Is one night enough? For a first stay, one night gives you the full experience: the evening bath, dinner, the futon and breakfast. Two nights are lovely if the inn is in a beautiful area.
When things vary by place
Every ryokan has its own way of doing things, and the house rules always come first. Things most likely to differ:
- Meals: in your room, in a dining room, or buffet style.
- Futons: laid out by staff, or by guests.
- Baths: opening hours, private baths, and tattoo rules.
- Payment: when you pay, and whether card or cash.
- Curfew and front desk hours.
When in doubt, look for the guide in your room or ask at the front desk.
Momiji's tip: Ask the staff for one local tip at check-in, like a sunset spot or a morning walk. Ryokan hosts love sharing their town.
Before you go
Our ryokan and home etiquette guide covers shoes, slippers, tatami and the yukata in more detail, and our onsen guide walks you through your first hot spring bath. Planning the journey there? Start with train tickets and IC cards and sending your luggage ahead. If this is your first trip to Japan, our guide for first-time visitors covers the small manners that matter most.
Happy travels from Momiji. Soak slowly, eat well, and sleep on the floor like a local.